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Most Vegans would prefer they date someone else who is Vegan, or at the very least open to becoming Vegan. This makes sense; Unlike how it is in the movies, opposites do not attract, and the way to having a long, healthy, happy relationship hinges on having shared values. Two people who are Vegan for ethical reasons on average have a lot in common, and often a concern for ethics extends to other aspects of worldview, such as politics and altruism.

But alas, given that Vegans have always made up a very small percentage of the population, finding a Vegan partner is fairly difficult, though not impossible. In a way, it's a blessing in disguise, since filtering out Vegans from non-Vegans allows you to see who actually is an ethical person and who is just talking shit (not that non-Vegans can't be decent people or don't genuinely believe what they say, rather it gives you a shorthand to the truly committed).

Finding someone online

While we're not ruling out finding a partner in real life, given you have access to the internet, not using that would be severely limiting yourself. The internet allows you to connect with anyone from around the world, and for Vegans this is probably our best bet, especially if you live in the middle of nowhere.

It's remarkable isn't it, that out of the three billion adult women in the world, your one true soulmate happens conveniently to live in the same block of flats as you, rather than say, in a village in Mozambique?

Dating Apps

Dating apps are very popular these days, but they suck. A lot of apps like Tinder and OkCupid do allow users to show their diets on their profile, but only allow you to filter by diet if you pay a premium, meaning you'll need to wade through loads of non-Vegans to even find one, unless you're willing to shell out twenty bucks for something that might not be worth it.

Veggly

Probably the most popular dating app for Vegans specifically is Veggly. While a great concept on paper, it falls into the trap many of these specialized dating apps have, mainly, being sparsely populated. Since most people flock to the mainstream dating sites, for something like Veggly, new members rarely ever join, and most of the accounts you see on there are likely abandoned from over five years ago. Forget about it if you don't live in or near a big city.

Source: The writer of this article has used Veggly.

Dating Non-Vegans

Dating a Non-Vegan creates a huge risk of you giving up on Veganism. This is a result of cognitive dissonance.

In most plantonic, friendly relationships, it's easy to be friends with meat-eaters, since just because your friends may have flaws, you understand that this doesn't make them bad people necessarily, not to mention that unless they're your roommates you don't have to live in the same place as them. The same cannot be said for romantic relationships.

When it comes to more romantic relationships, that type of rationality of understanding character flaws dissipates, and you are more susceptible to looking over flaws you would otherwise find a nuisance.

Dating non-Vegans with the intent of making them Vegan

Eh... maybe.