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@Red and
@brimstoneSalad
What kind of milk do you use? You might be able to swap it out for a plant milk.
I don't really use milk. Just occasional cheese really... and butter. It's not that hard to switch those for other things though, so I've started doing things like putting hemp hearts and nutritional yeast on my pasta instead of powdered Parmesan which has been surprisingly delicious. It's a slow shift, I guess, but I'm getting there.
I can understand not wanting to feel like a burden, though the way I've remedied that is just by making my own food for every meal instead of having someone prepare it for me. I'm not sure what your situation is like however.
Honestly, bringing my own food to gatherings has become more frequent lately because I keep getting allergic reactions, which just makes
everyone feel bad. Not always an option but definitely something I can do if there's time to plan ahead.
If a restaurant these days in the year of our Lord Worm 2025 doesn't have a single Vegan option that's is very suspect, and it's almost always just a laggard who doesn't want to adapt with the times,
There's a shocking amount of restaurants with zero vegan options in my city, I think it's a bit of a cultural thing. It's a fairly conservative city, and there are (as far as I've met) very very few vegans. Thank you for the Dining Out article, it was an insightful read!!
As for what
@brimstoneSalad said,
I would say just go vegan except for that
This may be my move for now. My partner's family hunts and fishes together in a way that's informed by generational knowledge, which I'm not super well versed with. They do plan ahead which individual to target out of a population to help maintain the health of whatever animal population they're going for. This means targeting injured and old animals as well as picking an appropriate sex and time of year... not sure what all goes into that but it's not anything like trophy hunting.
Hunting isn't a sustainable food source on a human population scale, but it doesn't sound like you're necessarily promoting more hunting, and your partner may be hunting in contexts that are themselves less commercialized/ less subject to wildlife management. It's something worth talking about, probably, but I don't want to tell you to stir up things when you're avoiding 90+% of the harm without turning your life upside down if you can just go vegan with that exception.
This is very true, and it's worth noting that they are given special hunting privileges because of having Indian Status in Canada so I couldn't even hunt with them if I wanted to. Their family can hunt together, for immediate family members and household members, and they largely stick to the reservations which they are familiar with and have knowledge about in terms of the ecology and status of various animal populations. I don't feel as though I'm promoting hunting by accepting meats/products and even they aren't really promoting hunting because of how closed the practice is. (Of course, there's lots of hunting in my province, but it's more restricted and non-Indigenous people hunting is more likely to be a solo activity and be trophy-forward). As much as I would love if they didn't hunt or fish, I understand why they do and I don't think I want to try to remove my partner from the social/cultural aspect of hunting with his family.