Re: Sticky Situation
Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2015 6:01 pm
Done
You kind of do, to get much out of it. Being friends means more exposure, and it also means a rapport which helps you get past all of the would be personal attacks and ego and reach for something like real understanding.EquALLity wrote: Ok, I agree with most of this. But you don't need to be friends with somebody to argue with them, obviously.
Focus more on what you can learn, rather than what you can teach, when you're making friends. The reason, of course, being that you have a limited number of slots there, and you really don't want to get into the habit of limiting your teaching to that small number.EquALLity wrote: Yes, that makes sense. Or I guess, who you can teach about things also (especially important ones, like veganism).!
He doesn't look very old, mid to late 30's? He's fairly clean cut, he shouldn't have that much trouble finding a date his age (unless that's just a very flattering photo). It's probably an issue of emotional maturity.RedAppleGP wrote:I creeped the guys facebook, and no chick between the ages of 13-25 would want to go out with this guy... if that's his real photo.
After a single conflict, I would be motivated to get exposure anywhere.brimstoneSalad wrote: You kind of do, to get much out of it. Being friends means more exposure, and it also means a rapport which helps you get past all of the would be personal attacks and ego and reach for something like real understanding.
brimstoneSalad wrote:Focus more on what you can learn, rather than what you can teach, when you're making friends. The reason, of course, being that you have a limited number of slots there, and you really don't want to get into the habit of limiting your teaching to that small number.
The images are already online publicly, though. What difference would reposting an already willingly made public picture make?brmmstoneSalad wrote: That said, could you please take down the photo? He may be a bit of a creeper hitting on teenagers, but it's still not nice to post other people's pictures online without their permission. Some day he may grow up, and the internet is forever.
Well, there's the legal one; e.g. that picture is owned by the subject, and we don't have permission to copy it. And then there's the moral one; he has control of his content where he posts it, and here he does not have control over it. Should he choose to delete it, that's his prerogative. This could hurt him.EquALLity wrote:The images are already online publicly, though. What difference would reposting an already willingly made public picture make?
But, when you post it on social media publicly, doesn't that change? There is even a repost option on Facebook.brimstoneSalad wrote:Well, there's the legal one; e.g. that picture is owned by the subject, and we don't have permission to copy it.
By this logic, we couldn't repost anything online without asking permission from the creator.brimestoneSalad wrote:And then there's the moral one; he has control of his content where he posts it, and here he does not have control over it. Should he choose to delete it, that's his prerogative.
Yup, I know.brimstoneSalad wrote:His being a pervy creep doesn't change any of that.
Even weird and nasty people have feelings.
Well, things they do aren't automatically bad.brimstoneSalad wrote: I don't feel comfortable taking a page out of their book.
No.EquALLity wrote: But, when you post it on social media publicly, doesn't that change?
Correct. The vast majority of the internet is infringing on copyright in a big way. AlthoughEquALLity wrote: By this logic, we couldn't repost anything online without asking permission from the creator.
I looked this stuff up online, and apparently, it's true. Huh.Correct. The vast majority of the internet is infringing on copyright in a big way.
Ah. Yes, I get what you're saying.Although "moral rights" are what I'm more concerned about here.
What about images of memes for instance? Is this just for people?When you're talking about a private person (not a celebrity, they aren't protected by the laws), it's important not to personally identify them.
Fair use? That's why YouTubers like TJ can review news clips and such using footage from the programs, right? I think he mentioned this in a video about SOPA/PIPA.There is something called fair use, but most people don't understand what that means, and it wouldn't apply to something like this.
It's only for humans.EquALLity wrote: What about images of memes for instance? Is this just for people?
Correct. Fair use means you can use a little bit of something to review it or criticize it, when it would be exceedingly difficult to criticize or review that thing without using any pieces of it.EquALLity wrote: Fair use? That's why YouTubers like TJ can review news clips and such using footage from the programs, right?