thanks for your replies!
@allison-vega
im honestly not searching for weak spots in veganism, i was just unable to wrap my head around what veganatheist said and was looking for answers. Im not here to argue (or defend factory farming),
What you wrote about beekeeping just shows, that you havent seen a bee in your life.
Noone tears off the wings of bees - i have never heard that... where do you get such desinformation? Again, this is horrific! bee queens cant fly because they are too big after mating (which btw is a very fascinating process, you should look it up), like termites or ants. you dont have to tear their wings off... their wings are useless.
the beauty products: I guess youre refering to gele royal. I dont know any beekeeper, who harvests it and i really dont know how its done, because it must be absolutely difficult to get it. gele royal is the substance bee queens are feed, as long as they are larvas. you would have to extract it from their cells. I really dont know how to do that, and you wouldnt get much (cells are small, and there are not many queencells). to produce it in an amount which would fill a jar, you would need thousands of beehives. my dad said, that its a marketing trick by the cosmetical industry. I really never heard of anyone being able to harvest gele royal in a significant way (and even if its possible... 99% of beekeepers dont do it for sure).
smoke isnt used to take their breath away (again.. have you ever seen a bee in real life???). bees react to smell. for example mowing a lawn makes them agressive (the smell of mowed grass makes them "think" that a bear is coming and they get in "defend the hive" mode). smoke makes them think that there is a fire nearby. so they stop defending the hive and start eating honey, to prepare themself for the possibility to escape by "moving" the hive. a keekeeper just blows in a tiny steam of smoke... there are no suffering bees... thats bullshit (honestly please go and check it out for yourself... the bees dont give a sh..., they just change their pattern of behavior / its like darkening the room, so the bird thinks its night, you dont harm the bird by doing that, at least in my opinion).
they get their "honey comb caverns" back, after the beekeeper took the honey.
the sugar replacement: guess what... in most parts of europe bees couldnt survive without that... fascinating isnt it? in the atumn we had to take away all the honey, not because we wanted it, (its not worth it, its too little...) but because our bees cant survive winter on a honey diet. bees have to go to the toilet and therefore leave the hive. to do so they need a temperature of at least 7°C (as far as i can remember). Im from the black forest and during the winter there arent that many days with more than 7°C (well... at least in the past there havent been...). If the bees eat honey they have to take a potty break much more often than with sugar. hives with honey die during the winter in most of northern europe!! thats why there arent many wild bee hives in the woods.
Now you may argue that because of that there shouldnt be any bees in northern europe and we shouldnt force the bees to live in an environment they are not made for. Which brings me back to the question i asked you before...
Without beekeepers (and them exploiting the bees) there are no apples (no= way less than with bees; not enough apples to feed the world).... and i really dont see the moral difference between eating an apple and honey (and again... I dont like honey, I dont eat honey. I prefere an apple over honey any day, but your arguement is invalid).
@brimstonesalad
thanks for your answers. Still not convinced, but Im going to read your link

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You asked me to share sources on bees.
I dont have any in english and to look up every false claim veganatheist made and provide a link to disprove it will take some time. To disprove all the false claims of the website he linked in his video, would take even longer. But honestly ... show this video / webpage to anyone who has seen a bee in real life and he will be either shocked, or crying of laughter.
What i really want to adress right now are his false claims on varroa, because they are just horrible.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varroa_destructor
wikipedia is all you need... european bees cant survive anymore without beekeepers!
and i would like to explain it a little better than wiki... if you dont mind.
historically varroa is a parasite of indian bees. which werent able to cross the himalaya... but because of global trade etc. varroa spread to the whole world. indian bees would survive in the wild (as he claims in his video), even if infected with varroa, because their development from egg to bee takes 2-3 days less than european bees. this 2 days more make the parasite kill the "unborn" bee, instead of just weakening them. european bees cant protect themself from varroa.
You might suggest that we use the resistant indian bees instead. This isnt possible because they dont have temperature sensores. The bees would leave the hive, when its too cold (see above) and die.
If we dont fight varroa, we are in real trouble and his video implies that varroa isnt a problem at all.
You may argue, that mankind doesnt need bees... which is basically correct... but you cant feed 7 billion people without bees, so you have to choice of suffering humans or "exploiting" bees (which i dont think is correct... but anyways lets go with it).
Argueing that we dont need bees is to me as valid as argueing that we dont have to care about climate change or vaccination. I really have never ever heard this claim before and I am shocked! Sure we dont have to care about climate change at all... but it will destroy us, who cares... the same goes for bees... sure we dont need bees, all we need is to starve to death.
I really dont understand why it is morally correct to kill "pest" animals like mites or aphids and it is morally incorrect to "exploit" bees. the bees are better of than the killed aphids.. i think. And why do you suggest that aphids have less sentience than bees? Do you have any source for this claim? And i really would love to see the study that shows, that a wild beehive is "happier" than a exploited beehive or a study that shows that exploited bees are suffering.
I do get the point that you want to cause as little suffering as possible, but i find it incredible difficult to decide what is morally acceptable and what is not. Are animal experiments justified to prevent humans from suffering? etc. (but you might have answered this question in your link i havent read yet...)
I read in another post, that its ok to keep a cat, as long as it is fed vegan... isnt that exploiting the cat? Why is it ok to have pets, but not ok to have bees?
Im honestly not here to find weak spots in the vegan theory, or disprove you. Im just curious.
edit: i found a website on the production of gelee royale (misspelled it sry). Its in german, but i could provide the link if you want. it basically says that its not harvested in europe, but only in china. you need to kill the queen and set up the hive to produce as many queens as posssible. this hive wont produce any honey... one hive will produce 500 g (less than a pound) of gelee per year and 1 kg (2.2 pounds) cost around 140€ (156$). I do think this is peverse. And i really want to point out that this isnt something a "normal" beekeeper is doing. Saying all beekeepers are bad because of that, is like saying everyone who owns a cat is a bad person, because you know someone who beats his cat.
and I doubt that gelee royale is of any use. I bet they add it in homeopathic doses to their products so they can claim its an ingredience....