There are definitely times for it, but if you can't have a reasonable discussion about differences of opinion with a close family member that (to me) indicates a kind of shallow relationship, or not much of a bond if you're worried disagreement will harm the relationship.PsYcHo wrote: ↑Fri Mar 02, 2018 11:12 pm Most people new to any group are non-confrontational. What you consider patronizing, others might consider politeness. They may in fact have an opinion, but don't wish to express it....yet. I use a similar technique in daily life- "dealing with people in everyday social situations/ how to stay out of jail."
We're all different, of course. I wouldn't tell everybody they have to argue about these things.
But for people like me, inator, and to some extent it sounds like Lay Vegan as well, it's important.
Does that mean it's true of 50% of vegans based on the sample here? Probably not. There may be a sample bias here for people who don't mind arguing about things. But it's something to consider.