I disagree... I feel very strongly about veganism, but I don't think people who have no opinion on veganism are offensive. Being neutral isn't the same is brushing off veganism as unimportant, it just means you personally don't have an opinion one way or the other about it. Also, I prefer someone to have no opinion rather than to be against veganism. Someone who has no opinion is not working against you, they just don't agree with you.inator wrote:You see, when you have no opinion on an issue that a loved one finds extremely important, or even claim that it's a non-issue, it will probably alienate that person even more than telling them their belief is wrong. You are not even considering their argument. You are making the issue look so unimportant that you can't even spare a thought on it. My father does something like that - he gladly cooks me vegan dishes when I'm visiting, and he will nod when I talk about anything having to do with ethics, but he will never engage me in a conversation about it. I respect other people who ask me about it and actively try to counteract my arguments much more than this lack of intellectual curiosity from my dad. I love him, but yes, I have lost some respect for him because of it.
Could it be that he doesn't engage with you about veganism because he doesn't want to start an argument?
How is not supporting veganism the same as not treating a vegan family member as an equal?Sure, I may not want to engage in philosophical debate with the baker down the street, and superficial politeness has a certain function in these minimal social interactions. But I'd find it impossible to maintain a deep personal relationship without having conversations of substance. Smiling and nodding instead of analyzing the pros and the cons of another person's arguments shows that you're not taking them seriously. Perhaps this will come up again in your life in some form, and I hope you will show enough interest in the outside world to at least engage your loved ones in meaningful conversation as equals.