EquALLity wrote:brimstoneSalad wrote:Gender roles are social constructs, derived partially from tradition and partially from biological or hormonal differences (which range a spectrum), meant to shoehorn people into easily understood social categories for pragmatic reasons. I don't even know what you two are arguing about.
It's about whether or not gender is a spectrum, basically. ThatNerdyScienceGirl seems to think that you can only identify completely as a woman or a man, and that bigender/agender/third-gender people are just freaks and attention seekers who make transwomen look bad.
ThatCondescendingBigot wrote:And to me, there are only 2 genders, Male and Female. Even societies that have "third genders" only truly have two, especially when "third gender" means a man who feels like a woman. I have not seen a single society ever that had more than Male or Female as genders until 21st century America came to be, now Mayonnaise is a gender and the use of more than 2 genders only hurts people like me. You can't be a gender that doesn't exist anymore than you can have the spirit of an animal residing in you that doesn't exist.
"Agender's", "Bigenders," "Third Genders" and "Otherkin" hurt my credibility and make my life harder as someone who just wants to be a regular woman. I don't even like Identifying as trans, as I am not trans, I am female. I am a woman. And I personally believe that if you identify as "trans" instead of simply as "male" or "female" than you are just an attention-seeking loser who needs to stop. The more people identify as "trans-woman" or "third gender" the more nobody takes me seriously, the more people view me as a freak. The more it harms me.
THAT is my views on people wanting to identify under a non-existent pronoun to feel like a f-cking snowflake.
Apparently I am a bigot now. I am a bisexual transwoman who is a bigot because people who identify as a tree are real people? I think you can identify as a dragon, as a dog, as a plant, as Elvis Presley, that doesn't make a third gender nor does that make you agendered.
And yes, Otherkin and Transpeople, both identifying as something they are biologically not, are interrelated in the logical sense. You know, logic? Why is a guy who dresses like a woman but identify's as "third gender" any different than a guy who feels phantom sensations in this non-existent dragon wings and identify's whole heartedly as a dragon? There is no difference. But then again, that isn't a PC thing to say, but it's right.
According to you, masculine women and feminine men, are a gender all on their own, such as the Native American's we were talking about earlier. They are men, who dress and act like women, and that is not a new gender. You can identify as a new gender all you want, and you can get society to view you as a third gender, but that is not a new gender, that is a man with a woman's gender.
Someone who doesn't like societies preferences for pink for women or blue for men is suddenly a new gender, or not gendered? I grew up loving gender neutral clothing, was I agender and suddenly became gendered over time? I am a feminine woman with many masculine traits, does THAT make me a third gender? Or... am I only third gender when I don't want to associate with the two perfectly fine genders we already have? Forgetting that Gender is a spectrum and even the middle of it is either male, or female. Dressing in both men's and women's clothing and acting both male and female doesn't make a new gender, it makes someone who likes the apparel for both genders, or dislike common gender roles. Mind you, Gender Expression is not Gender Identity.
Then again, I have been transgender for 6 years and Bisexual for longer than your tiny ass has been born, so what do I know about the logical side of the LGBT?
I wasn't going to respond, but you know what? I like to drag people across the sidewalk with my arguments.
I got a wikipedia article I was given by you that tells me that Masculine women are a gender, and that one article which I already known to be bullshiite.
Now you're an atheist, right? If so, you should have the rationality to know that Agenders and Bigenders and the like make no sense on a psychology standpoint (something I have a few years of study in) or a biology standpoint.
Then again, you are more concerned with being Politically Correct than you are of being actually Correct. So please, grow a few years, actually research psychology, biology, the LGBT on a logical level, and then come back to me and tell me I am a bigot for being 100% factual.
Have a nice day, kid