Thanks, I'm sure we all hope it goes well. And I hope it really is as simple as a misunderstanding.
You're not going to be banned for something like this... that's not the kind of place this is.
Saying that it couldn't hurt to be more supportive? That I would err on the side of doing that, and IF I'm right it's an easy fix?
Saying literally "I don't know what she'll say to you tomorrow..."?
I'm not making certain claims here, I've been explicitly talking about statistics and in terms of the possibilities I'm outlining I'm going based on my experiences and those of some of the people I've known and talked to who have had similar trouble with their parents about all kinds of things where the root is a fundamental disconnect like this.
Whether I like you or not is immaterial.
I gave you opinions. You didn't like them.
Telling you what you might have done wrong is the most useful advice possible.
We could talk at length about what your daughter has done wrong, but you aren't her and that's not really useful.
We could also speculate on the chances of this resolving itself, which might make you feel better but again isn't very useful.
What is useful is what you can DO differently to help increase the chances of this story having a happy ending.
I'm not just attacking you, I'm trying to help you understand what you could do differently.
If you don't see the value in that, then you don't understand what constructive criticism is or the concept of what good advice looks like.
If you can't handle a bit of constructive criticism, don't ask for advice or opinions on such issues.
For my part, I can not apologize for what I've said or the content of my criticism, but if you feel like my language was too harsh for you to receive the criticism I apologize for that.